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Transforming Self Through Transforming Relationships – Self-Love

We are moving deeper and deeper in the unification with the soul in human embodiment. No news, I know. But there are many facets of this merging process. Lately, it has been pretty much mostly about transforming self through relationships.

Relationships do reflect you, they reflect your actions, your creations, how you use your energy, they reflect all you are. Many times we can be unconscious of some things we do that may not be beneficial for us and obviously for others around us either. Relationships mirror that, everybody in your life is reflecting you on some level. Therefore, they bring us an opportunity to gain some awareness and clarity on the unconscious acts we might still be playing.

Generally speaking, the major theme of this period is one of the toughies for humanity: self-love. But it is also the most transformative experience and blissful way of being we can be in. Life begins when you truly love yourself. You may live, but you are not alive until you do that.

I am constantly being surprised by the many deeply ingrained layers of the social programming around self-love. It goes very deep and it’s extremely subtle. We tend to self-sabotage, criticize, judge, abuse, disempower, torture and imprison ourselves one way or another. I’m not even exagerating when I use those words. The same way we treat ourselves, we treat others. All that is, first and foremost, a lower mind product, facilitated by the social programming passed through eons of dysfunction.

Don’t get me wrong, we created this for various purposes and they all lead to Soul growth, it’s exactly what we chose to experience, so there is no victim, there are only creators. Now we are collectively moving away from the duality we’ve created. More and more people are choosing to let go of what no longer serves them and all the social programming we’ve gathered all this time in duality. First and foremost, it must be an individual choice though.

That’s where relationships come in. They can provide you with that heightened awareness that is necessary to make you conscious of the changes you need to make to let go of what no longer serves you. As the things that need to be transformed and healed come into our awareness, two timelines pop up. One of it is ignoring and denying the things that need to be released and just keep carrying them in our energy field,  as it is definitely uncomfortable to allow all the fear, pain and suffering to be alchemized through you (although still necessary at some point), however you choose when you are ready. The other choice is to ” face your demons, ” make peace with them, see them for what they really are at the end of the day – an expression of your Soul. That is what’s going to dissolve them into their highest aspect. Rebirth. Phoenix. All the pain and suffering come from fear, it comes from the illusionary separation from Source/from everything and everybody. As I have stated before, the relationship you have with yourself is really the most important relationship you will ever have.


Therefore, the solution in most cases is to love yourself. When we truly love ourselves, we open new pathways that facilitate our healing, transformation, purification and transcendence of our general state of being – ascension. All we do and all we are can only come from a place of love when we do that and only the most beautiful experiences can be birthed from it. Only when we love ourselves fully, with each atom of our being, that’s when we will be able to truly love others as well.

I wish self-love could be explained better in words, but words fail. It needs to be felt, experienced. It is a constant choice, an action, a state. It’s divine and the greatest gift you can give yourself and so, I urge you to be your own Santa.

Thank you for reading,

Love and Light,


Ascension Guidance: New Moon In Leo – 14 August 2015

I just wanted to say from the beginning that I am very average in terms of astrology knowledge, so this is not an astrological article. This is more of a “sourcing,” it is simply source/light information that’s being transmitted, as well as a collective energy translation into words. With all that being said, we have a new moon in Leo coming up on the 14th of August.

The energy of this new moon is very potent in terms of getting some clarity on what we really want and what’s best for us, which we will eventually discover it’s the same,  as well as always aligned with the Soul Source and its purpose. It’s all beautifully and divinely orchestrated by you and All you are, which is far beyond what we can even imagine at this point. As always, during new moons, it is always recommended to set clear intentions for the next phase, that will facilitate the creation of what you want in a conscious manner.

It is time to look deeper into your passions and discover what truly drives you, what really makes you happy. As crazy as it is and as impossible as it might look to our limited mind at times, dare to dream it. See it. What is it ? What is it you really want to do, to live, to experience ? Ponder about that in your meditations, in your present moments under the light of this new moon. Look deep. Now read this: You truly are a universal being. You come from the stars and the earth and Source. You, the Soul, are as ancient as times and beyond. Your potential is boundless. You are boundless by nature. You’ve heard this before, but have you really felt this with each and every atom of your being? If so, how can anything be impossible ?

That is what the Leo energy is facilitating – having the courage to follow your deepest Soul passions and desires. Other planets (Venus, Mars) are currently in Leo as well and are amplifying its energy, while adding some extra empowerment, making it more and more difficult to ignore and not follow our deepest passions, so why even try to do that ? The message is: Surrender to the flow, while creating and navigating it. This New Moon aligns with Venus retrograde and it is forming a trine with Uranus, which can help us reflect on the lessons we’ve learned from denying those passions and (hopefully) choosing otherwise this time.

When you truly love yourself, you can only do that – choose that which benefits your highest good. Venus in retrograde is here to show us the aspects of ourselves that are not being loved (if there still are) acknowledge, embrace and love. So, you see, it’s all a beautiful celestial dance and it all benefits the All greatly. It’s a dance of bliss and harmony. 6a00e008ce71f5883401b7c796d62e970b-320wi

At the same time, there is some inner child healing as the Leo is the “child” of the zodiac, so for some this might come up as well. Awareness and presence in the now moment is really the biggest step towards healing and transmuting self. Besides that, each and every one of you have the skills and abilities to grow, expand and unify in physicality with the Soul Source and the inner child is an important part of it as it is the pure innocence facet of the Soul.

Simply connecting and embodying more of the inner child archetype characteristics will definitely assist with maintaining a higher vibrational state – a cheerful, playful approach towards the challenges we might experience during these times of great intensity, which can sometimes feel quite uncomfortable. But, we have all the tools to ease the uncomfortable part, one of it being approaching a childlike attitude. Physical symptoms can be eased by simply making sure you’re staying hydrated and listening to the body, that is nurturing it with whatever it needs to integrate smoothly these waves of light coming in and to just function properly.

There is also some purging/purification going on. If feeling unusually emotional, know that it’s normal. Simply observe the emotions and allow yourself to feel and learn what needs to be learned from them. Grow through those emotions, as you release them from your field and transform them. The same process goes for thoughts. Declutter. Detox. Let go of what no longer serves you anymore.

During the next few moments, many of our habits will change, as we deepen into the Soul Source unification process, we might lose interest in doing  things we used to do and embrace new habits that are more aligned with the Soul (e.g: eating more organic) This is a natural process, so just allow it to unfold and flow with the changes. Embrace the changes as they are all aligned with your highest good – if you so intend it. When you intend it, you create it. Happy New Moon !

Thank you for reading,

Love and Light,