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8 Most Powerful Self-Healing Affirmations

Use conscious affirmations to direct the energy, to focus the energy into what you really want, to set intentions. In order to benefit best from these affirmations, they need not only to be spoken, or thought of, but actually felt through each and every single atom of your being. Through all you are, through your consciousness. Persistence and dedication is needed in every moment and actively embodying and living the reality of your affirmations, creating it.

Try using affirmations to are simple, but powerful, in alignment with your highest good, to direct the energy you want towards manifestation. Be open to infinite possibilities. Align energetically with your highest outcome and hold the infinite space for its unfolding. Simply be open, while learning to recognize and discern that which is alignment with your highest good.

Use these affirmation whenever you feel it is necessary. That could be any time, with anything.

The most poweful affirmations of self-healing are:

1. Natural Healing
” My body knows how to heal itself. I am activating my body’s natural healing system. I am allowing the healing to occur. “
2. Highest good
“My body tells me what it needs to function in its highest state in physicality. I am asking my body to tell me what it needs to function in its highest state in physicality. “
3. Information
” I am honouring my body’s wisdom, by trusting the body signals it sends. I am open to consciously receive information from my body. “
4. Harmony
” I am asking that every part of my body carries its task easily, naturally and harmoniously. I am asking every part of my body to harmonize. “

5. Wisdom
” My body is attuned to the wisdom of the Universe. I am asking my body to receive universal light, aligned with its highest good. “
6. Vitality
”  I am giving my body all it needs to be full of vitality. I am proactive and dedicated in taking care of my body’s optimal function. “
7.  Gratitude:
” I am grateful for being in my body. Gratitude feels my mind and body like a healing stream of gold light. “
8. Love:
” I am in love with my body. I am accepting and loving each and every single part of my body. I am fully embracing my physical human aspect, in whatever shapes and forms. I am accepting and loving my imperfections, because they make me unique. “

Affirmations will not work if there is deeper rooted judgement, fear, hatred, insecurity or any other self-sabotaging behavior involved. In that case, going to the root, acknowledging, seeing for what it is, gaining the wisdom there needs to be received and integrated from the experience is the only way to cut the root and facilitate the natural healing to occur.

Our bodies might be complex, many things are yet not discovered, but at the end of the day, the body is a physical expression of our consciousness. The same ” principles ” apply. I am not  speaking about the usual limiting dualistic principles we’ve been used to until now, but the universal principles that are most expansive and abundant in possibilities and miracle creation. You can create your own affirmations that feel best to you and fit you best, in the moment. Flow with it, get creative.

Thank you for reading,

Love and Light,

Eddie

The Reiki Ka Shen Sekhem Healing System

The re-emergence of Sekhem/Seichim began with Patrick Zeigler in 1980. Whilst spending the night in the Great Pyramid of Giza, Egypt, Patrick experienced a spontaneous initiation. A swirling electric blue light appeared and descended into his heart, where it remained, moving in a figure-eight infinity pattern. This initiation empowered Patrick with a form of spiritual healing energy.

A little further down the track, Patrick was given a book about the ancient Egyptian goddess Sekhmet. The book frequently mentioned the word Sekhem and Patrick realised that Sekhem was the ancient Egyptian word for Universal Energy and Power. It is translated as “Power of Powers”. He realised that this was the word he had been given – the word he had been spelling as “Seichim”. The symbol for Sekhem in ancient Egyptian hieroglyphics is a sceptre. The sceptre represents the connection of Heaven and Earth. Patrick then began using the “Sekhem” spelling in conjunction with Seichim.

Sekhem/Seichim heals on the physical, emotional, mental and spiritual levels, with a focus on the heart centre. It has been described as “living light energy”. Several healing systems, using various forms of this energy, have been developed under such names as Seichim, Seichem, Sekhem and SKHM.

While other people used and developed Sekhem/Seichim healing systems based on the Usui Reiki model, Patrick took a different approach and developed alternative ways of working with the energy. His approach evolved into a very advanced and powerful form of Sekhem which he calls ALL LOVE. Patrick now passes this energy on to others in his ALL LOVE workshops which involve the participants connecting with the energy via active meditations and “spontaneous initiations”.

Below is Patrick Zeigler’s ALL LOVE / SKHM “Shenu” which gives a face to the SKHM energy stream. You may be able to connect with the energy by gazing at this image.The energy has its own consciousness and when you look at the Shenu, the SKHM energy is also looking back out at you.

The Ka Shen Sekhem System

Ka Shen Sekhem is based on Phoenix Summerfield’s system of Seichim and most of the symbols used in Ka Shen are from her system. The core part of Ka Shen has 7 levels and a further 5 levels will also be available. Level 1 is functionally equivalent to Reiki II. Each level is complete in itself and you need only do as many levels as feels appropriate for you. Each level changes, raises and develops the vibration of the energy and brings in more symbols.

Level 1 gives you a simple system and establishes a base form of the Ka Shen Sekhem energy vibration. Levels 2 – 7 introduce a powerful range of deeper and more exotic vibrations, based mainly on the Seichim symbols used by T’om Seaman and Phoenix Summerfield.

Ka Shen Sekhem is also connected with ALL LOVE and attunement to Ka Shen helps connect you with the ALL LOVE energy. The Ka Shen Sekhem energy vibration has been designed and developed to integrate with the ALL LOVE energy and to work together with it during treatments. Each level of Ka Shen will continue to help strengthen and deepen your connection with the ALL LOVE energy.

An important aspect of Ka Shen is working with a balance of Father Spirit and Mother Earth, and a balance of Masculine and Feminine energies. The attunement process establishes a balanced connection with Spirit and the Earth. The Ka Shen Sekhem energy itself works with a balance of Spirit energy and Earth energy (which could also be described as Universal energy and Earth energy), and a balance of Masculine and Feminine energy.

If you resonate with what you have read so far and would like to find out more about it, about the spirit guides of this Reiki Healing System and how to get initiated into it click HERE.

Thank you for reading,

Love and Light,

Eddie

Complete Forgiveness Guided Meditation

Forgiveness is the key to true freedom. Judging and criticising ourselves constantly and stressing ourselves with the past and perhaps, the future, are one of the many things we adopted and thought of them as normal things to do throughout the years. We became addicted to that.

These serve their purpose as it might show us a deeper rooted dysfunctional pattern, but at times it is on a more shallow level. As in, we just do it, because it became a habit. Eventually, these outdated habits need to be broken and transformed into the new ways. The new normal needs to become a constant state of self-nurturing and nourishing. Consider this shallower level transformation, a final purification and a general integration of a deeper state of self-love. In the grander scheme of things, there isn’t even something to forgive, as all is perfect as it is. – Eddie

” In order to be freed from the past and to welcome new and abundant energies in our lives, we need to forgive ourselves and others for errors and transgressions. Fear and ignorance often lead to words and actions that hurt either ourselves or others. Freedom from shame, guilt and rage can be ours to enjoy if we learn to forgive. “

Love and Light,

Eddie

Ascension Energy Update: Pisces Full Moon – 29 August 2015

As we went through the Lion’s gate portal, the energies have been, pushing us forward on the Ascension path, in terms of transformation and finally releasing the last remnants of the dysfunction, beliefs and pretty much everything that no longer serves us. When I say the energies, I don’t mean we have no participation in it, on the contrary, we are doing it all, the “energies” are only facilitating this transformation. As always, everybody’s having different experiences, in their own timing, which is why your awareness and following/trusting your own guidance is so important. This is a multi-dimensional experience, it’s not time or space limited, it’s universal.

I’d like to touch on the many facets of the current energies, but they are too vast and expressed in way too many forms, however I’m going to do my best to emphasize on the most important ones.

One of the obvious themes everybody’s been experiencing since Venus went retrograde in July is self-love and healing ourselves and parts of our life, such as relationships. I wrote another article on this topic – Transforming Self Through Transforming Relationships – Self-Love With the Full Moon in Pisces, I’m feeling a sense of completion and expansion in terms of self-love, for those who are truly focused on becoming and being the highest aspect they can be in every moment as a conscious human. This will also depend on the level of self-mastery we are that’s constantly changing, expanding. Levels as in not better, not worse or any other comparison, but from the higher perspective of levels which is all about Soul choices, growth and purpose.

Hand in hand with self-love goes freedom, which was/is the core theme of the Lion’s gate. There are different states of freedom. Freedom might be expressed differently in our lives, during certain periods and our perception of it will change and expand, but true freedom in its essence is the freedom that comes from within. It is the freedom of the human spirit, the raw, pure and wild force of our spirit, the one you feel when the wind is caressing your hair, the one you see in a child whose beingness hasn’t been touched by social conditioning, the horse that runs carelessly through the fields, untamed. Do you feel the same way ? Do you feel completely free ? Free to be yourself, free to do what you want to do ? Take a moment to open up to the feeling, are you free ? If not, what is it that you created that’s making you feel imprisoned ? Let it go.

It’s time you become the child, or more like bring it to the surface and allow it to play. This is the return to innocence.

No more blame games and no more excuses. It’s not the government, it’s not the weather, it’s not money, it’s not your parents, it’s not the system who is putting you in cages. It is only you, or more particularly, your fears. When you accept this truth and end the blame game, you take responsability for the incredible power of giving yourself freedom, you will enter a new ” world” : the universal world, the realm of unlimited possibilities, the realm of true joy and Soul fulfillment. Your power can work both ways, you can give yourself freedom, or take it away, it is a choice. Your choices will reflect in your actions, your behaviour and general state of being, in any case.

Before entering this new world, you might be asked to give up all your fears, surrender, transform and bury all these old rotten emotions and baggage. You might have been carrying it for way too long. How long you’re going to keep carry it, it’s your own decision as well. You see, it is all on you. You must realize and understand your tremendous creator potential, your universal nature and truly embody it. ” Walk the talk, ” as an ascending master that you are.

The Universe, with all its alignments and celestial dances is supporting this right now, it’s supporting you in all your desires, choices and actions. Do you realize now the importance of being yourself and expressing it ? How powerful doing what you enjoy most and living your deepest heart desires really is ? Sit with it for a bit, internalize it. A new step in self-mastery is being achieved.

We are still integrating the latest light waves, we’ve been literally living that song “wave after wave.” This integration process will continue for a few weeks, possibly months as we transform many things on many levels. Information for the next phase keeps coming in so simply be aware in the present moment of now and have the courage to take some leaps of faith. Have the courage to follow your heart, cause it will not lead you astray, on the contrary, the outcome will be more joyful and miraculous than you could have ever imagined.

Strongly inter-connected with the latest initiations is the Full Moon in Pisces that is tomorrow, 29th August. The Pisces is being seen as the emotional sign of the zodiac (emotional, as in moody) which is accurate on some level, but in its highest aspect the Pisces energy is all about the deepest most beautiful feelings and allowing these feelings to flow. Feeling is one of our greatest gifts. We are truly alive when we feel and when we embrace each feeling as it is.

Due to the water element of the Pisces, we might experience more telepathic communication, heightened senses, clearer/more specific guidance, so it’s a good time to get some clarity on whatever it is you want to get clarity on. Soul purpose details, missing pieces might add up to the puzzle.

With all these September events coming, it is very important to not have expectations about how they might look like, as that leaves no room for dissappointment, only miracles and highest outcomes. Not only the focus on future events robs us of the joy of the present, but it also creates a block in the flow. Energy flows where attention goes. Since there is no future (or at least not one set in stone, ever), where does our energy go ? It is being wasted. It’s important that we learn to organise and cultivate our energy in a way that benefits us best.

No attachment to events, the outcomes of them, no attachments whatsoever and boom shaka laka – You got freedom, now expand from there.

We are definitely going to experience some big shifts in September, we all feel it, but there is no other event like the present moment of Now. In the present, you can experience anything, but what I think the best aspect of it is that you get to live, to really be alive and enjoy life. This is what we’re all aiming for in the end, isn’t it ? Irony is that what we’re aiming for, is already here, now.

As always, if you feel guided to set clear intentions during this full moon, do so. Direct the energy, your energy, into what you wish to create and let the magic unfold. Easier said than done, I totally understand, but never impossible when we are truly devoted to be the highest aspect we can be in the moment. I hope you have a happy hippie joyful full moon!

Thank you for reading,

Love and Light,

Eddie

The Romantic Trilemma: An Existential Inquiry Into Modern Romance

“You disappoint me, Gwendolyn. I hoped you might have a watt or two more light in your bulb than those poor toads that look on romance as an investment like waterfront property or municipal bonds. Would you complain because a beautiful sunset doesn’t have a future or a shooting star a payoff? And why should romance ‘lead anywhere’? Passion isn’t a path through the woods. Passion is the woods. It’s the deepest, wildest part of the forest. Everybody but the most dried up and dysfunctional is drawn to the grove and enchanted by its mysteries, but then they can’t wait to bring in the chain saws and bulldozers and replace it with a family-style restaurant or a new S and L. That’s the payoff, I guess. Safety. Security. Certainty. Yes, indeed. Well, remember this, pussy latte: we are not involved in a ‘relationship,’ you and I, we are involved in a collision. Collisions don’t much lend themselves to secure futures, but the act of colliding is hard to beat for interest. Correct me if I’m wrong.” –Tom Robbins, Half Asleep in Frogs Pajamas

A lot of people seem to be confused over what the concept “hopeless romantic” really means. It’s one of those things; like how most people disproportionately imagine they’re a “good driver,” or “smarter than most people.” It’s a particularly fascinating cognitive bias known as “illusory superiority,” whereby individuals overestimate their own qualities and abilities, relative to others. The same thing applies to the concept of being a hopeless romantic.

In order to understand what a hopeless romantic is, we first need to understand what it is not. Let’s break it down using a trifecta: between the hopeful romantic, the hope-fool romantic, and the hopeless romantic. Just remember to look through the scope of high humor, and let rest your scope of self-seriousness. And remember what Rumi said, “Love is the whole thing. We are only pieces.”

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The Hope-fool Romantic:

“A man asks, “God, why did you make woman so beautiful?” God responded, “So you would love her.” The man asks, “But God, why did you make her so dumb?” God replied, “So she would love you.”” –Unknown

A great many people are hope-fool romantics because they imagine they are hopeless romantics when really they are hopeful romantics. Allow me to explain.

A hope-fool romantic is typically naïve, impressionable, and thoroughly conditioned by their particular culture’s sense of what romance means. They are taught to be invulnerable and meekly me-centered (codependent). They are unable to even fathom being vulnerable and we-centered (interdependent). Besieged by the onslaught of romance movies and Disney movies, and beleaguered by the gauntlet of love songs and sexy videos they grew up watching, these young romancers imagine they’re cool, hopeless romantics. When really they’re just conditioned to view love in extremely marginalizing, materialistic, and possessive ways.

If, as the French poet Paul Valery satirically opined, “Love is being stupid together” then hope-fool romantics have taken that advice and ran with it. In their innocence they have fallen victim to the notion that love is something that they must win, or that they must seek and eventually possess, tame, or contain. But, as Osho articulated, “Love is not about possession. Love is about appreciation.” Love is not a destination. Love is a journey. Appreciation can only come when we allow ourselves to become vulnerable enough to feel it. And that means delving into some pretty scary waters. As Rumi said, “Love is the bridge between you and everything.” But he can only show us the bridge. We’re the ones who have to walk over it.

The first scary step is learning to love yourself. Not your image. Not your reputation. Not what you imagine people think about you. But your deepest, wildest, most vulnerable self. Your inner-most core, where primordial love resides. Seek that. Love that. Start there. Then work your way up to loving everything else. Love is the medium through which courage can flow, after all. Like Lao Tzu said, “Being deeply loved gives you strength; while loving deeply gives you courage.” Indeed. Love can solve almost any problem. An act of love, the defeat of the conditional by the unconditional, overcomes everything.

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The Hopeful Romantic:

“Drop the idea that attachment and love is one thing. They are enemies. It is attachment that destroys all love. If you feed, if you nourish attachment, love will be destroyed; if you feed and nourish love, attachment will fall away by itself. They are not one; they are two separate entities, and antagonistic to each other.” –Osho

Hopeful romantics make up the greater majority of romantics. They have overcome the naiveté of being a hope-fool, but only to fall into another level of innocence altogether: willful hope. They utter such platitudes as “Mr. Right” and “the one” and “knight and shining armor” and “soul mate” and “happily ever after”. They want so terribly bad that their love be a magical experience of two people meeting and spending the rest of their lives together, that they obsess about it to no end, thereby killing the magic. And yet, ironically, they still imagine themselves to be hopeless romantics. But they are so busy trying to possess love that they forget to be possessed by love. Obsession tends to lead to possession, after all. And they are all too often disappointed, typically becoming inadvertent serial monogamists along the way. Granted, there are always exceptions to the rule. But even in those cases, as the Bard said, “The course of true love never did run smooth.”

If hope-fool romantics are inhibited by the past, then hopeful romantics are inhibited by the future. They are so intent upon finding the “other half of themselves” that they forget they are already a whole person. A whole person who has yet to figure out what they’re made of. Love, if genuinely felt, is more of a fracturing anyway.  Love cracks us open. It breaks open our heart. It makes us vulnerable so that another person, who is also fractured and vulnerable, can help co-create a unique love dynamic. Love tests our mettle by shattering our metal and then softening it in order to see if it can be adapted to, and then pieced together with, the shattered and softened aspects of another.

But hopeful romantics don’t understand this. They are locked in. They are dead-set on finding their “other half.” They have the cart of their longing firmly in front of the horse of their love, and then they wonder why they cannot get anywhere. Our longing should only ever trail behind us, like a cape, lest it blind the road ahead of us, like a horse cart. A road that leads to a refreshing new perspective, and a shedding of the too-heavy burden of willful hope. Like Mark Booth cryptically articulated, “Deep inside us there is a self-loathing that prevents us from living wholly in the moment, from living life to the full. We cannot truly love or be loved until the insect-like carapace is cut open by the agonizing process of initiation. Until we reach this point we don’t know what life is meant to be like.”

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The Hopeless Romantic:

“The only way of loving a person is to love them without hope.” –Walter Benjamin

Being a hopeless romantic is a quality, a way of being in the world with an equal parts mindful/no-mind disposition toward life. A way of appreciating what we have, balanced with the counterintuitive ability to let it go. Hopeless romantics understand that the only viable option for love is for it to be in a state of creative non-attachment, holding on sufficiently enough to not fall apart, but letting go enough to allow space for human flourishing. Love must not obsessively attach and it must not obsessively detach, but it must do both if it would live forever. Like Dawna Markova said, “I choose to risk my significance; to live so that which came to me as seed, goes to the next as blossom, and that which came to me as blossom, goes on as fruit.” And so it is with hopeless romantics. They are not bound up in the hope of love, rather they are unbounded by the freedom of love being what it is meant to be. Indeed. As anywhere else in the universe, the hopeless romance trumps the hopeful one.

Being a hopeless romantic is embracing the Apocalyptic Love Story. It’s being all in, filled to bursting with the beautiful tragedies as well as the ugly joys of life. It’s riding the hurricane of love like the beautiful wild beast that she is. It’s embracing vicissitude. It’s falling in love with love itself. The highest to which mankind can attain is love. And so a hopeless romantic contents themselves to be in love with love. They are love. They understand that true love is the absence of striving for love; it’s the presence of being Love. It’s a deep, all-consuming cosmic love that subsumes the slings and arrows of unexpected change. Like E.E. Cummings said, “Love is the voice under all silences. The hope which has no opposite in fear; the strength so strong mere force is feebleness: the truth more first than sun, more last than star.”Hopeless romantics are the ones dancing the wonderfully-terrible and tragically-beautiful dance between “first sun” and “last star.” Their love shrinks or expands in proportion to their ability to let it be free. And so let it be free they must, riding it without hope, without expectation, without dogmatic belief or a self-serious disposition. On bated breath they surf, rolling with the tragic pounding of the waves, but rising with the romantic sounding of the Phoenix’s courageous call.

The hopeless romantic is the Never Not Broken Goddess within us all, shattering in order to feel more, courageously breaking apart in order to become absolutely vulnerable, and then piecing herself back together again in order to become spiritually and existentially robust. Like David Whyte beautifully articulated, “I want to know if you are willing to live, day by day, with the consequence of love and the bitter unwanted passion of your sure defeat. I have read, in that fierce embrace, even the gods speak of God.

Thank you for reading,

Love and Light,

Gary Z McGee

Releasing Your Control Drama

Recently, I’ve started reading a James Redfield book called: The Celestine Prophecy. It’s a good read for people who are on their awakening path, definitely recommended. What really caught my attention and I felt is significant for the period we are in is the control drama archetypes that James described so well in his book. I am going to share a few paragraphs that describe these archetypes, with a few notes from myself.

Bare in mind that these dramas are extremely subtle and have been passed through generations. It is some deeply ingrained social programming so don’t feel guilty and don’t be too hard on yourself if you discover you have been playing into these dramas or creating them all along. Instead, as the information of these control dramas come into your awareness, take responsability and become more mindful of the energy of it, in order to transcend these outdated programs.

Here are some paragraphs that describe control dramas in general:

We must face up to our particular way of controlling others. Remember, the Fourth Insight reveals that humans have always felt short of energy and have sought to control each other to acquire the energy that flows between people. The Fifth then shows us that an alternative Source exists, but we can’t really stay connected with this source until we come to grips with the particular method that, we, as individuals, use in our controlling, and stop doing it – because whenever we fall back into this habit, we get disconnected from the source.  

Getting rid of this habit isn’t easy because it’s always unconscious at first. The key to letting it go is to bring it fully into our consciousness, and we do that by seeing that our particular style of controlling others is one we learned in childhood to get attention, to get the energy moving our way, and we’re stuck there. This style is something we repeat over and over again. I call it our unconscious control drama. 

I call it a drama because it is one familiar scene, like a scene in a movie, for which we write the script as youths. Then we repeat this scene over and over in our daily lives without being aware of it. All we know is that the same kind of events happen to us repeteadly. The problem is if we are repeating one particular scene over and over, then the other scenes of our real life movie, the high adventure marked by coincidences can’t go forward. We stop the movie when we repeat this one drama in order to manipulate for energy. “

” The first step in the process of getting clear, for each of us, is to bring our particular control drama into full consciousness. Nothing can proceed until we really look at ourselves and discover what we are doing to manipulate for energy. This is what has just happened to you. “

Note – The solution to ending these unhealthy exchanges of energy is the realization that within, you have access to an infinite, never-ending amount of energy constantly flowing through you if you allow it to. 

” Each of us must go back into our past, back into our early family life, and see how this habit was formed. Seeing its inception keeps our way of controlling in consciousness. Remember, most of our family members were operating in a drama themselves, trying to pull energy out of us as children. This is why we had to have a strategy to win energy back. It is always in relation to our family members that we develop our particular dramas. However, once we recognize the energy dynamics in our families, we can go past these control stategies and see what was really happening.

Each person must reinterpret his family experience from an evolutionary point of view, from a spiritual point of view, and discover who he really is. Once we do that, our control drama falls away and our real lives take off.  ” 

The next paragraphs give us an insight of how the 4 control drama archetypes operate. 

” So how do I begin ?

 By first understanding how your drama was formed. Tell me about your father. 

He is a good man who is fun-loving and capable but… I hesitated, not wanting to sound ungrateful toward my father.

But what ? Sanchez asked.

Well, I said, he was always critical. I could never do anything right.

How did he criticize you ? Sanchez asked.

A picture of my father, young and strong, appeared in my mind. ‘ He asked questions, then found something wrong with the answers.’

And what happened to your energy ? 

I guess I felt drained so I tried to keep from telling him anything.

You mean you got vague and distant, trying to say things in a way that would get to his attention but not reveal enough to give him something to criticize. He was the Interrogator and you dodged around him with your aloofness

Yeah, I guess. But what is an interrogator ?

An Interrogator is another kind of drama. People who use this means of gaining energy, set up drama of asking questions and probing into another person’s world with specific purpose of finding something wrong. Once they do, then they criticize this aspect of the other’s life. If this strategy succeeds then the person being criticized is pulled into drama. They suddenly find themselves becoming self-conscious around the interrogator and paying attention to what the interrogator is doing and thinking about, so as not to do something wrong that the interrogator would notice. This psychic deference gives the interrogator the energy he desires. 

Think about the times you have been around someone like this. When you get caught up in this drama, don’t you tend to act a certain way so that the person won’t criticize you ? He pulls you off your own path and drains your energy because you judge yourself by what he might be thinking. 

Let me explain the classifications spoken of in the Manuscript. Sanchez said. Everyone manipulates for energy either aggressively, directly, forcing people to pay attention to them, or passively, playing on people’s sympathy or curiosity to gain attention. For instance, if someone threatens you, either verbally or physically, then you are forced, for fear of something bad happening to you, to pay attention to him and so to give him energy. The person threatening you would be pulling you into the most aggressive kind of drama, what the Sixth Insight calls the Intimidator.

If on the other hand, someone tells you all the horrible things that are already happening to them, implying perhaps that you are responsible, and that, if you refuse to help, these horrible things are going to continue, then this person is seeking to control at a poor me drama. Think about this one for a moment. Haven’t you ever been around someone who makes you feel guilty when you’re in their presence, even though you know there is no reason to feel this way ?

Yes.

Well, it’s because you have entered the drama world of Poor Me. Everything they say and do puts you in a place where you have to defend against the idea that you’re not doing enough for this person. That’s why you feel guilty just being around them.

I nodded.

Anyone’s drama can be examined, he continued, according to where it falls on this spectrum from aggressive to passive. If a person is subtle in their aggression, finding fault and slowly undermining your world in order to get your energy, then, as we saw in your father, this person would be an interrogator. Less passive than the poor me would be your aloofness drama. So the order of dramas goes this way: Intimidator, Interrogator, Aloof and Poor Me

A person goes to whatever extreme necessary to get attention energy in their family. And after that, this strategy becomes their dominant way of controlling to get strategy from everyone, the drama they constantly repeat. 

I understand the intimidator, I said, but how does the interrogator develop ?

What would you do if you were a child and your family members were either not there or ignored you because they were preoccupied with their career or something ?

I don’t know.

Playing aloof wouldn’t get their attention; they wouldn’t notice. Wouldn’t you have to resort to probing and prying and finally finding something wrong in these aloof people in order to force attention and energy ?This is what an interrogator does.

I began to get the insight. ‘ Aloof people create interrogators! ‘

That’s right.

And interrogators make people aloof! And intimidators create the poor me approach, or if this fails, another intimidator!

Exactly. That’s how control dramas perpetuate themselves. But remember, there is a tendancy to see these dramas in others but to think that we ourselves are free from such devices. Each of us must transcend this illusion before we can go on. Almost all of us tend to be stuck, at least some of the time, in a drama and we have to step back and look at ourselves long enough to discover what it is. 

I was silent for a moment. Finally I looked at Sanchez again and asked: Once we see our drama, what happens next ?

We are truly free to become more than the unconscious act we play. As I said before, we can find a higher meaning for our lives, a spiritual reason we were born to our particular families. We can begin to get clear about who we really are. ”

In conclusion: Be mindful of your energy. Don’t go into guilt mode if you realize you have been creating some drama, we all chose to experience duality for a while, so there’s nothing to feel guilty about. It’s just an experience. Guilt is unnecessary, it’s like jumping  from drama to another drama, from control drama to victim drama. Give some love and kindness to yourself. Taking responsability for your own creations is a much better idea and it is an important theme now, especially as we go through this full moon gateway.

The paragraphs I used from The Celestine Prophecy book were taken from the 144th page to the 155th. You can get it on Amazon if you are interested. You can click on it below and it will lead you there.

 

Thank you for reading,

Love and Light,

Eddie

Relationships – Venus Retrograde

As we are getting closer to Venus Retrograde, the relationships theme is coming up in the collective energy. This astrological event that lasts until the beginning of September will help us look at our relationships from a different perspective than we have until now and it’s making us go deeper in the Ascension process through Soul growth. The fastest way to grow and expand as an individual is through relationships.

Because we are all at different stages of ascension, in the coming moments everyone will have their own unique experience with relationships, but in essence we all have in common one of these branches I feel guided to share now:

  •  Healing – Basically, this is deep mostly emotional healing that’s been stored in our cellular memory for eons. Intense emotions might surface these days, simply observe and allow yourself to feel them without engaging or attaching any negative thinking towards them.
  • Challenges – We are being tested all the time now and the purpose of these tests is to assist us integrate deeper states of self-mastery and awareness. Again, observe your reactions to certain situations and alchemize them into responses. Try flowing from the heart in every moment. Practice and be persistent.
  • Merging of aspects – If there are aspects of self that we’ve have been previously unaware of or avoided, now is the time to embrace and unify within. Certain relationships will trigger this union.
  • Strengthening connections – This will happen with people we might know or will meet with whom we’ll instantly connect on a deeper level. Many are coming together and form partnerships that will facilitate the collective evolution.
  • Transformation/Transmutation – Anything that is dysfunctional needs to be transformed and transmuted within and in our relationships as well. Again, be aware and observe. We’re all natural alchemists that can shift in a blink of an eye.

I have talked about all of these themes before in my articles, if you’d like to read more details about any of them you can search on the website, but basically this is the core of many of our experiences at this time. In order to flow through these intense energies with ease, a deeper surrendering to it needs to occur, awareness and presence in the Now moment. The rest will take care of itself. Trust. Venus going retrograde in Leo is perfect as the Leo energy is all about simple natural ways of doing things.

Make sure you take advantage of this time to rest when your body asks for it as the energies might be a bit hard on the body due to the activations/upgrades/downloads/transformation we might go through.

Changes are to be embraced and celebrated.

Thank you for reading,

Love and Light,

Eddie

The Holy Grail – Chalice Of Love

I found this beautiful story about the true meaning of the holy grail and I instantly felt it needed to be shared, as it triggered some remembrance in me. Hopefully it will have the same effect on you. 

” Way, way back in time, when the dinosaurs roamed, and human life was scarce, and the winters were cold, the People of the Earth would find shelter and warmth within caves or under over-hanging rocks.

One dark winter, while they huddled together for warmth, a great light appeared within the darkness and a being appeared with hair like the sun, shining eyes like the water in a lake, and skin like snow. The people of the Earth looked from one to another. They had never seen such as this before, and their brown eyes grew large in wonder.And so the man of the Sun stayed and spent a season with them. He shared their fire, warmed their hearts, joined with their women and his story became woven into theirs. Over this season they learnt many things, and by their sharing, a new element was born — LOVE — and this feeling of love was held and cradled within their hearts and its container became the Holy Grail. The memory of this Chalice, this Holy Grail, from that point in time, became part of the DNA of this tribe of the Human race.

When it was time for the man of the Sun to return to his home, the People of the Earth suffered great distress and pain from his parting. Even the unborn children felt their mothers pain. Felt her tears, and felt the racking of her body as she sobbed. And as the moon turned, and the spring dawned, a new race of children were born who looked nothing like their ancestors and yet, they were loved heart and soul, for the people of the tribe could see in their eyes, the Man, the Angel, the God, who had blessed them with the knowledge of the Heart…Love. And yet the People of the Earth were not content. They yearned for their lost love, and the children yearned for their father whom they had never known. They searched every face, looking for the image of the stranger spoken of around the fires at the turning of the seasons, and their hearts carried the loss and yearning through the generations from the beginning of time until now.

Little did they know that the Chalice of Love had been formed and held within their hearts by the union of Spirit and Matter through the Mothers of their own People.The People of the Earth. Generations passed and the People continued to project their love and yearning out, away from their own kind, away from their centre, never recognising that it was THEY, the People of the Earth, who were the true custodians of the Grail.

"The Holy Grail" by Alex Grey

Down through the generations the children of the children multiplied, and within them they held the seed of Love. Those who carried the Chalice within were recognizable by their light and their love of humanity. The sons and daughters spread out over the world and married into tribes from far and wide. Many of the generations of children that followed inherited the seed through their blood, and these children KNEW their destiny and held this great chalice within as a precious jewel.

Through time, as the sons and daughters married into tribes from far lands…their offspring became the children of Enoch, of Noah, of Abraham, of Isaac, of Judah, of Helenus of Troy, and so……on, and throughout history the seed of the Chalice spread. At times when the memory in the blood became thin, two, from the scattered race of men and women sharing same bloodline, were drawn together and the Chalice was refilled, and a child was born with the pure essence of Divine Love.

Throughout History there have been great men and women who have embodied the true meaning of this Chalice. They have been known by their great love for humanity. Today the Earth is in dire need of those who carry the Chalice within to recognise that it is they, the People of the Earth, who are the true custodians of the Chalice, and that it is the Earth, or Gaia, who is the Heart Centre of the Universe. Together, blending Spirit and Matter, we the People of the Earth can fill the Holy Grail and make a stand for Love.

The time for the reunion of the blood line is on us.

INDICATION: The time is right to find those of your bloodline.  You will know them not by their name, or the colour of their skins, but by their deeds, and by the light that shines in their eyes and the Love that flows from their hearts. “

Source: http://www.lyndallwhite.com/

Thank you for reading,

Love and Light,

Eddie

Andrew Martin: Love Is A Force Of Creation And Destruction – Video

In this video, Andrew Martin explains some of the facets of creating the reality we desire, that our Soul desires. Simply the awareness of the blocks that might stand in the path of creating that which you want to, will assist to dissolve them. Andrew adresses these blocks in a very practical manner and hopefully can make you aware of them in your own life, so they can be released, if you hold such blocks.

Note: Contrary to many spiritual teachings, not all desires come from ego and not all desires come from the Soul. This is not black and white at all, it’s a gray area. To discern for yourself that which comes from the Soul or that which comes from the ego you have to feel your way through it, whatever your desire is. How does it feel ? If you are still confused about it, let it go. If it’s aligned with your highest good, it will come back and you will know it is. At the same time, we have to integrate within and in every present moment, the  deeper knowing based on faith, patience and trust that everything in our lives is divinely orchestrated in a way that benefits us best.

” Andrew Martin is an Intuitive, Energy Healer and Spiritual Rebel in Seattle, Wa. Contact me for readings and healings. It’s not always easy facing the truth of who we are. Especially when we’ve spent a lot of time, money, and energy to pretend we’re someone else.
Self discovery is always liberating. I’ve never meet anyone who regrets doing the inner work necessary to uncover a life that feels authentic and true. I am here to help you begin the journey to creating the life you want and it all starts with you getting real. ” – Andrew Martin

Thank you for reading and watching,

Love and Light,

Eddie

Ascension Guidance: The Full Moon In Capricorn

A new monthly cycle has arrived. The Summer Solstice seems like it was ages ago. Since then, we’ve been constantly embracing the “darkest” aspects of ourselves that needed nurturing and healing. This continues throughout the month of July as well. We are also still in the process of internalizing the light codes and activations we have received during the Solstice. These take a while to integrate, so we are in a bit of an adjustment period. There are many exciting things happening in July, yet that is no news, exciting things happen all the time when you are present in the moment.

We are starting the month with a powerful opportunistic Full Moon in Capricorn, while Jupiter and Venus are dancing in our skies and other celestial alignments that are facilitating deep changes in the collective consciousness.

This Full Moon in Capricorn feels like it is all about balance, which is why I’ve written this article the other day – Regaining And Maintaining A Balanced State Of Being. At the  same time, I think a more specific balancing purpose this Full Moon has is facilitating the balance between our work/our responsabilities/our Soul purpose and our nurturing/our personal inner healing/transformation, which go hand in hand, sort of. We have to find that balance and apply it in our lives.

The inner work/inner healing and cleansing is getting more and more intense, that is because we are literally being shaken to our core. The deepest, most complex, subtle and hidden shadows are surfacing now. They are asking us to acknowledge, accept and embrace them as parts of ourselves, which they are. When we do that, we transcend them, we heal them and we expand. What takes for that to happen is simply our awareness of the ” shadow self” in the present moment of now, then the guidance and tools to transcend that will come naturally if that is what you desire. You basically just have to deeply feel it and sit in silence with it in your inner sacred chamber to transform self through it. This way you become whole and more unified, not that you aren’t already, yet it is a leap in the human consciousness, it’s a higher level of awareness as a physical being.

Sometimes, the way this shadow work gets done is through our relationships with others. Observe your interactions with others and what comes up and most importantly, observe yourself, your reactions, the way you respond, do you come from a place of love, compassion and understanding or from a place of separation and duality ? Relationships are the easiest and fastest way for us to grow and transform into the highest aspects of ourselves we can be in every moment, ascend basically. That is one of the many reasons why Unity Consciousness is so important for the collective, as the only way “up” is together. 

I feel like it’s important to point out again that the easiest way to approach “shadow work” is to adopt a playful attitude towards it. In the bigger scheme of things, as serious and dark it can seem in the moment, this is still child’s play, so be childlike – don’t take things so seriously, don’t overthink everything and let the unnecessary details go.

What’s most beneficial for our state of being is to raise our frequency and vibration. We do that through joy. Have fun, laugh, explore, discover, read, travel, or whatever brings you joy. That mixed with your presence in the Now is one of the most ” spiritual “, most esoteric and magical thing you can do. Doing only that and leaving behind what no longer feeds your Soul’s greatest passion is life-changing in itself.

As most Full Moons, this one will reveal something that hasn’t been brought into your awareness until now, so be aware and allow whatever it is the Universe is trying to tell you to come without expectations. Messages, experiences, signs, emotions, insights, old things within ourselves that need transmutation or aspects of self-mastery we need to “work” on  always amplify around full moons and that is simply to make you aware of it. You will know exactly what it is, because it will come in a way that you can understand and see clearly.

Your Higher Self knows what he/she’s doing. Connect consciously with him/her and your Team this Full Moon, allow the guidance to flow through you and take the steps you feel guided to take. Our intuition/inner guidance/ has been increasing tremendously lately due to big quantum leaps in our individual and collective consciousness. We’re merging more deeply and in a more tangible way with Spirit, with the Soul Source in physicality and many are following the same road. I am sure a lot of you have been feeling and experiencing this merging one way or another. Kudos, Pioneers! We are progressing faster than ever before. Set clear intentions during this Full Moon, plant the seeds and be patient, they will blossom in no-time, literally.

Thank you for reading,

Love and Light,

Eddie