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How To Easily Cope With And Embrace The Changing Times

What a joy change can be when we are in a state of complete surrender, of constant letting go and letting be. There might be a few moments of grief or sadness and mixed emotions as we are cleansing more and more of the old. It is absolutely normal.

Change is not easy, it usually never is. It can be very chaotic in the moment, but we can either resist it and have a really hard time with it, or surrender, lay back and observe things flowing easier. That’s when the magic and miracles happen! So how do we do this?

I feel compelled to give a few “reference points”. All our journeys, no matter how connected, they will always be unique for each person. As always, take what you feel that serves you well and leave the rest. What works for one could not work for another. It is very important to internalize, process and integrate through your own being and experience.

The “reference points” are:

      • Be Present in the moment of Now – I know you’ve probably heard this a gazillion times by now, but I cannot stress enough the importance of it. Everything happens in the Now and only in the Now we can know true surrender. Our minds tend to wander in the past or in the future and mostly we do that unconsciously, but it “steals” the joy of living. All life is in this Now moment. The Key is to be self-observant. Become the Observer for that is an aspect of the Higher Self and when you observe the mind wandering, take a deep breath and ground yourself/your energy in your body and into the Earth. In time, this becomes very natural, because truly living in the now is in our nature.
      • Let go of everything that no longer serves you – This might include unhealthy attachments to people/habits/things, lower vibrational thoughts and emotions, behaviours, belief systems and any kind of programming etc. This implies becoming aware of the things we have to let go of, because when we’re aware, we’re halfway there. The next step is taking action towards transforming through it. This transformation is again, a very individual process, and we have to find our own ways of shifting through the things that no longer serves.  Letting go is such a multi-faceted process. In truth, what letting go really means, is moving through a phase of our lives, growing through it, and really allowing us to naturally move forward, without trying to control and hold onto what was. On a more deeper level, letting go simply means surrendering and trusting that life knows what it’s doing and everything is as it should be and in one way or another we agreed to everything that led us to this moment right here.
        We have to be open and accept changes in your lives – however those changes manifests themselves, how we create those changes. If we’ve created them, then it is for a reason. We have to explore the opportunities of the change and make heart-felt choices at all times. The heart can’t ever be wrong.
      • Trust and have faith – We need to trust ourselves and have faith that even though things may not happen exactly how we wanted them to happen or when we wanted them to happen they are perfectly orchestrated based on our Soul growth and expansion. Sooner or later it will be clear why things happened the way they did and epiphanies will come. The imbalanced mind is afraid of change, so it tries to instill doubt, but even this serves a purpose, as it gives us two choices – to either give in to doubt, or surrender them to the wisdom of our hearts who know and trust life is unfolding perfectly. As I have mentioned before, being self-observant is very important. We have to observe our thoughts and thought-patterns, try not to engage in the imbalanced mind chatter, simply observe and let those thoughts be, flow and dissolve in the light of the higher mind, the observant mind. Invoking the Violet Flame to assist is recommended whether it’s lower thoughts or emotions or anything that requires transformation/transmutation.
      • Be aware and responsible – Of the energy you are putting in the Universe, of your own energy, of the frequency and vibration you align yourself with, that you choose to radiate. Our state of being plays a big role in the creation of our reality. It is like the compass for the sailor. Through our states of being and what we choose to align with, we let the Universe know that that is what we want, and that is what we will get. As more light is coming in, it illuminates the areas where we hold resistance, “stagnant”/old energy might surface for it to be “recycled”, transformed. As always, being aware of this process, learning to recognise it, is the first steps towards that. This is another major aspect of self-mastery: knowing our energy, knowing how to constantly align and be in the desired frequency and vibration through choice and know how to “work” with our energy. This is not to be confused with control or manipulation of energy.
      • Have no expectations – We all have had them at some point in our lives, okay ? It’s fine, but we can change that. Having expectations implies projecting our focus into the future, wanting to know the future and assuming things will happen like we want them to, or people will treat us how we want them to and so on. But even expectations serve their purpose. They let us know when we are not present and in true surrender to what is in this now moment. Wanting to know the future shows us that there’s an aspect within ourselves that is not enjoying this moment to the fullest, that we are stealing ourselves the gift of this present moment. That aspect needs to be acknowledged, embraced and matured/unified. There are a plethora of possibilities and “future” timelines, we can tap into information about those as well, but what’s the point ? If we could know our future, would we want to ? How would that even serve us, our growth and experience ? Even if we tap into future timelines, our experience could be completely different.
      • We have our Higher Selves and a Team of Spirit Guides supporting and assisting us in every moment – No matter if a person “believes” or not they are there. This is not a “belief system,” these beings are as real as you and me, perhaps not as physical. ” Ask and you shall receive. ” It is really that simple. That doesn’t mean some godlike being will come from the sky on a white horse to “fix things” or do things for us. They are our equal, there is no need for worship, or make Spirit guides the new Jesus. It doesn’t work like that. Our team is a support system, we work together and they have agreed to assist us either temporarily for a specific purpose or for a lifetime. Our guidance comes in many forms – clairvoyance, clairsentience, clairaudience, or simply a heart knowing, a visual, a sign etc. However it comes to us is unique and perfect for each and every one of us. We need to trust our guidance/intuition. Doubt will block it from flowing through you properly. Doubt distorts. Fear distorts. As we let go of that, our guidance becomes clear and natural.
      • Become comfortable with the uncomfortable – with constant, sometimes rapid changes and adapt to them as best as you can – In recent years, changes have been quite accelerated in way, either them being external or internal, individual or collective. No matter how they look, these changes are all for the highest good of all, as decreed by all involved in it. They pinpoint the emergence of the New Earth, of a new era of Love. Resisting a change may not be the best idea, as I’ve mentioned above, it might cause unhappiness and unnecessary suffering. Find out the real reason of this resistance and shift through it. What I found best to do, and I am sure many have, is lay back and enjoy the ride, rather than giving in to fear. We can learn how to live in the excitement of change and choose to see it from a higher perspective, as we reawaken the joy and adventurous nature of the free spirits that we are. This is really a matter of perspective.
      • Change is not always easy, but it doesn’t have to be hard either – It is unfortunately deeply ingrained in the collective unconscious that change should be hard, that you have to suffer through it and that change is painful and pain equals growth, which really isn’t and doesn’t have to be the case anymore. Most of the time the pain is self-imposed. This is a big part of why some of us hold resistance towards change, we fear it, we fear the unknown. Know that change doesn’t have to be painful or dramatic. Most of the time, it is exactly what we make of it and how we choose to respond to it. There could be a lot of purging in the process, but it is only a tiny aspect of change. We are being “pushed” to release that which no longer serves us anymore. Sometimes we have to grieve the old, feel it all and let it go to make room for the “new”, for what is and what is coming. We have to allow ourselves to grieve, but not let ourselves linger in the grieving process for longer than necessary, as that becomes self-imposed.

We choose the kind of energy we asign to each experience. But isn’t it far better to let an experience be what it is, without us judging it for bad or good, but simply – an experience – and let ourselves be guided and drawn to experiences that makes us feel happiest ?

We have all we need within and an unlimited potential to create and to make the best of each moment.

Thank you for reading as always,

Love and Light,

Eddie

A Spoken Guided Visualization Meditation: Letting Go Of Control – Surrender

” ~ Come to the edge, he said. They said, “We are afraid.” Come to the edge, He said. They came. He pushed them. And they flew! ~Guillaume Apollinaire. This happens to be one of my favourite quotations and I do my best to live by this. We can take the leap of faith in our lives by trusting that we are safe beyond measure. And to develop this trust, it is important for us to have a calm and focused mind. The best way to the other side, is through deep meditation. “

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Thank you for reading and watching,

Love and Light,

Eddie

Guided Meditation – Letting Go

Let go of thoughts and/or habits that do not serve you in this gentle guided meditation. You can begin to release old and new thought-patterns or stuck emotions that weigh you down and hold you back. Let them go.

The meditations were begun with one purpose: simply to try and help people. Every meditation is produced with genuine care and love for those people who use them, because we too, have needed the kind of help our meditations are trying to offer others.

Thank you for reading and watching,

Love and Light,

Eddie

Where Do We Go And What Do We Do When We Ascend ?

I wanted to share my insight for a while now on this topic and synchronistically someone asked me this question today, so I might as well do it. Everybody’s perception and understanding of ascension is different, but when you put all those perceptions aside, only the true essence of that understanding remains, which is simple, then it will forever expand. Eventually it all comes down to that essence, the foundation.

Ascension has many facets and it touches our whole beingness and inevitably our outer experiences. It goes from transcending all illusion/duality/programming or however you choose to call it, to activating dormant “, junk” DNA/ and start working our creator magic as physical human beings. It is ” reconnecting ” to the Soul Source, which we’ve never been truly disconnected from, but it sure as hell looked like it and sometimes it still does. There are moments, but they are a lot less frequent now and will be less and less as we progress on the path. We are becoming aware of our connection to All that is, because we’ve remembered. We’ve remembered our divinity, our multi-dimensionality, our true nature, our interconnectedness.

Ascension is opening up to the love we are and shining that light from within – outward.

That, in itself, is one of the most transformative experiences. That is one of ascension’s most important aspects – transformation -. Except, it goes deeper than that, it’s transmutation, full metamorphosis. When love permeates our cells, our whole beingness is transmuted one way or another. This process is constantly monitored by our Soul and our teams. All the experiences in our life and our reality in general is unfolding as desired, as chosen and as created by You and you alone. But who is the “You” ? You are a lot more than what you know, you are not only the human aspect of yourself, you are also the Soul, the Higher Self, the Oversoul and other multi-dimensional aspects. The simple awareness of this when integrated and when we’re connecting deeply to the truth of it, is life changing.

You know, it all begins when you take that veil of forgetfulness off. That veil you wore allowed you to experience the illusion, grow on a Soul level from it and so many other beautiful things we’ve learned on the dualistic earth. But as the universe is constantly expanding, so are we. And now it’s time for the next phase.

However, as I have said before, it’s all orchestrated by Us in a way that benefits us most, which many times might not make much sense to our minds, trust me, I get it. But one day it will all click and when everything clicks, things will start making sense, not in your mind, but in your heart and you will remember and know and that “knowing” can’t be explained through words.

Never compare your individual ascension with someone else’s, as no two journeys are the same. Yes, similarities might exist, but at the end of the day, you’re going to have to follow your inner compass, your heart/intuition, your whole guidance system, because your journey is unique. It’s not as easy as it sounds, I hear you, but practice makes the master! Also, at the level of frequency and vibration the planet and the collective it is a lot easier to just hop on the ascension train. And the heart is the portal to ascension.

With all that being said, ascension is simply a shift in frequency and vibration. But this shift in frequency and vibration is the beginning of a completely new world. It’s a complete metamorphosis of us and all we thought reality was. It’s a process.

To go back to the original question: Where do we go and what do we do when we ascend ?

We go within. When we ascend in physicality we don’t go anywhere else, no other planet, no starship, we are already on one. And as we go within, what we do changes. Habits change. Our Soul purpose is most likely to change as we go deeper in the ascension process. Nothing is really set in stone. Only our essence remains the same.

Thank you for reading,

Love and Light,

Eddie

Letting Go Of Unhealthy Attachments

Often times we tend to look outside of ourselves for things to make us happy; sometimes materialistic things, sometimes a person, an action, a place. We’ve been addicted to attachments of all sorts, but that’s okay, kind of. From how I see it, there are attachments that benefit you in the moment and there are attachments that are completely toxic and unhealthy to you. It is up to each one of us to discern which are which in our own lives.

Most recommended is to simply ask to release and let go of that which no longer serves you (attachments, contracts, cords etc.) and let them be revealed to you, as simply the awareness of them will facilitate their transmutation; not only through mental awareness, although it is included, but it’s not everything and not enough. Your whole-y consciousness will dissolve all that no longer serves you, if you allow it to do so. You however, have to master stillness, presence, balance and groundedness. Practice, dedication and persistence can get you anywhere and you already have all the tools you need to flourish from within. All spiritual practices, techniques and teachings have been made to eventually lead you within. Why is that ? Because within you have all you will ever need. None of these practices is the ultimate one, or the wrong or right one and none of it will give you that which you so constantly seek, but they are the bridge to that.

This constant seeking adventure is a side effect of the amnesia of the dualistic earth. When we are seeking something outside of ourselves, whatever it is, in truth we are paradoxically seeking ourselves, our connection to All that is/Source. Constantly seeking something exhausts you, confuses you, frustrates you, but when you are at the end of the rope,  you surrender and when you do it you discover that, that which you were seeking was in front of you, or more specifically within you all along.

It’s alright to go through this process, we’ve been going through it for eons, how else would we discover our godhood as humans ? At the same time, there are easier ways and we don’t have to go through the same exact process over and over again if we become aware of the simple truth that everything we ever need, seek, crave truly is within – “The kingdom of heaven is within.”. Do you feel it yet ? Connect with your inner knowing and consciously integrate this truth in your beingness. All ways are valid, all lead in the same place, it’s just different journeys. All are to be honoured and respected, but things don’t have to be hard, there are always more harmonious ways. When you are living in the flow, when you are the flow, when you surrender and allow life to unfold naturally, there’s no hardship, but the opposite.

I wish I had the power to make everybody understand that suffering is not essential, it is not spiritual or human to suffer. We don’t have to suffer our way to some sort of false spiritual enlightenment, wisdom, success or anything else. This is yet another kind of attachment; an attachment to suffering, pain and drama combined with the belief system that “It’s part of us as humans” No, it’s not, it’s part of the old world programming. We, as humans, are naturally harmonious and joyful by nature, constantly expanding and evolving.

Collectively, we’ve chosen harmony. That is what’s currently manifesting, no matter how it looks like at times. The not so harmonious part that is being played out in some areas of the planet is the residual of the old world, maintained by some who choose to linger a bit more in duality, according to their own Soul plan, growth and decision. Best approach towards this is being the detached observer. The detached observer is always compassionate and doesn’t engage in the drama, because it can see the bigger picture and has the inner knowing that everything that is being played out now is aligned with the greater good. It knows that there’s no right or wrong, good or bad and all just is.

Become your own detached observer as well, it is the neutral state where you no longer judge yourself by your thoughts or emotions and just allow them to flow.

There’s an entire universe within yourself, waiting to be discovered and explored. Dare to look within first at all times and try not to let attachments take over your life. At the end of the day, you are the master of your own life.

Thank you for reading,

Love and Light,

Eddie