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Where Are All Those Miracles I Was Expecting ?!

The latest light waves have left many in either a blissful state of being or a miserable state of mind. There have been many talks about September 28th, from conspiracy theories to other sensational stories. The miserable state of mind comes from fear or expectations that lead to dissappointment, it’s pretty much the same. Also, from placing our focus outside of ourselves.

Many talk about not seeing things happening, or not happening as fast as they want to, or exactly how they planned it in their minds and then get frustrated with themselves or start blaming the government or God or whoever, but forgot that they, themselves, are creators of that which they experience. And we are also responsible for the way we respond or react to everything.

But, you see, all these important powerful events, all this light coming in is destined to bring great change and it is so, however they will not bring change FOR you, but THROUGH you. The dissappointment comes from expecting miracles outside of yourself, or passivity. That is a choice. There is also the choice of not only participating in the change, but proactively create it. The highest most profound way of participation is through your BEINGness, with your aware divine human state of being, your authentic Soul essence self – simply being yourself. The proactive creation is when you let that Soul essence emerge to the surface and completely unify with your human self, with each and every atom of who you are now – letting your essence reflect in all your actions. The harmonious balance of that is called being an ascended master. Only an overall blissful state of being can come as an outcome of that balance.

All choices, decisions, ways of being are respected and honoured, it is just a matter of taking responsability for your own, discerning which ones are most suitable to you and really simply becoming clear with what you want to create for yourself and how you want to create yourself. The Path of the Heart is about divine remembrance, self-discovery, but also about creating ourselves as human beings through the essence of our Soul.

As always, it all begins within. You might have to reflect on whether or not you are loving yourself enough to become the highest aspect of yourself you can be, in the highest state of being. I say that because only when we truly love ourselves, we want what’s best for us. It takes commitement, dedication and a genuine self and selfless sense of divine service. As contradictory as that might sound, there needs to be a balance between self and selfless service, going to the extreme of either one of them is unhealthy.

The miserable state of mind, some are experiencing as a result of so much light coming in, could also happen because of what many call “shadow work” , ” dark nights of the Soul” moments/ releasing density. This is either triggered by ourselves or through our relationships, which are at the end of the day an extension of ourselves, mirrors.

Know this is a necessary process that serves us well, it is as normal as it can be and you are not alone, many are being asked to embrace, love, accept and transcend the “shadow self. ” and all aspects of ourselves that have not yet been merged within ourselves.

However, is important not to attach ourselves to this shadow work process, let it unconsciously define who we are in the Now and hold us stuck in the miserable state of mind. Instead learn to flow through it with grace, by adopting a childlike attitude. I have written about adopting a childlike attitude before, I don’t want to sound like a broken record, but I feel very much guided to remind us of this approach. Because, when we adopt a childlike attitude, “shadow work” becomes a child’s play, literally. When you lose some of the seriousness, it is so much easier to just flow with grace through anything you choose to experience and grow from, no matter how serious it might seem in the moment.

Seeing the bigger picture will also help, but the childlike implies a lot less overthinking and overanalyzing and a lot more acceptance and surrender to what is. The childlike aspect of ourselves is the purity and grace of the Higher Self.

Practice patience by being in the Now. In the Now we can only be patient, because we are not waiting for anything, we are not waiting for the future, we are not placing our focus on future events, because we know the Now is all there is, we know we can only create in the Now. Things are not happening as fast as we might want in the outer, but exactly how they should, when they should and for many reasons and they all lead to yours and All’s highest outcome. Just think about how chaotic everything it would be if everything in the outer would change in the blink of an eye. Everything would be a lot more chaotic and we would’ve missed the point. The point is that it is not where we are headed, it’s about how we get there and what we are experiencing.

Just like the famous quote says: “It’s not about the destination, it’s about the journey.” 

Bottom line is: don’t expect miracles – create them and be One. Allow them to reveal themselves to you and be open to seeing them. They are everywhere around us.

 Happy Thursday!

And thank you for reading,

Love and Light,

Eddie

Letting Go Of Unhealthy Attachments

Often times we tend to look outside of ourselves for things to make us happy; sometimes materialistic things, sometimes a person, an action, a place. We’ve been addicted to attachments of all sorts, but that’s okay, kind of. From how I see it, there are attachments that benefit you in the moment and there are attachments that are completely toxic and unhealthy to you. It is up to each one of us to discern which are which in our own lives.

Most recommended is to simply ask to release and let go of that which no longer serves you (attachments, contracts, cords etc.) and let them be revealed to you, as simply the awareness of them will facilitate their transmutation; not only through mental awareness, although it is included, but it’s not everything and not enough. Your whole-y consciousness will dissolve all that no longer serves you, if you allow it to do so. You however, have to master stillness, presence, balance and groundedness. Practice, dedication and persistence can get you anywhere and you already have all the tools you need to flourish from within. All spiritual practices, techniques and teachings have been made to eventually lead you within. Why is that ? Because within you have all you will ever need. None of these practices is the ultimate one, or the wrong or right one and none of it will give you that which you so constantly seek, but they are the bridge to that.

This constant seeking adventure is a side effect of the amnesia of the dualistic earth. When we are seeking something outside of ourselves, whatever it is, in truth we are paradoxically seeking ourselves, our connection to All that is/Source. Constantly seeking something exhausts you, confuses you, frustrates you, but when you are at the end of the rope,  you surrender and when you do it you discover that, that which you were seeking was in front of you, or more specifically within you all along.

It’s alright to go through this process, we’ve been going through it for eons, how else would we discover our godhood as humans ? At the same time, there are easier ways and we don’t have to go through the same exact process over and over again if we become aware of the simple truth that everything we ever need, seek, crave truly is within – “The kingdom of heaven is within.”. Do you feel it yet ? Connect with your inner knowing and consciously integrate this truth in your beingness. All ways are valid, all lead in the same place, it’s just different journeys. All are to be honoured and respected, but things don’t have to be hard, there are always more harmonious ways. When you are living in the flow, when you are the flow, when you surrender and allow life to unfold naturally, there’s no hardship, but the opposite.

I wish I had the power to make everybody understand that suffering is not essential, it is not spiritual or human to suffer. We don’t have to suffer our way to some sort of false spiritual enlightenment, wisdom, success or anything else. This is yet another kind of attachment; an attachment to suffering, pain and drama combined with the belief system that “It’s part of us as humans” No, it’s not, it’s part of the old world programming. We, as humans, are naturally harmonious and joyful by nature, constantly expanding and evolving.

Collectively, we’ve chosen harmony. That is what’s currently manifesting, no matter how it looks like at times. The not so harmonious part that is being played out in some areas of the planet is the residual of the old world, maintained by some who choose to linger a bit more in duality, according to their own Soul plan, growth and decision. Best approach towards this is being the detached observer. The detached observer is always compassionate and doesn’t engage in the drama, because it can see the bigger picture and has the inner knowing that everything that is being played out now is aligned with the greater good. It knows that there’s no right or wrong, good or bad and all just is.

Become your own detached observer as well, it is the neutral state where you no longer judge yourself by your thoughts or emotions and just allow them to flow.

There’s an entire universe within yourself, waiting to be discovered and explored. Dare to look within first at all times and try not to let attachments take over your life. At the end of the day, you are the master of your own life.

Thank you for reading,

Love and Light,

Eddie