Embodying a harmonious balance within our beingness can be one of the most beautiful and useful gifts we can give to ourselves. You will be filled with happiness and experience a constant state of bliss. When you achieve a certain level of balance, being mindful and in a constant relaxed state is the only way, even through these pretty turbulent changing times.
Often times, reaching a certain level of balance and maintaining it can be quite challenging, but I hope this article can bring some light to the subject. Each person has a different way of balancing themselves and it all depends on their awareness and the way they are seeing the balance in everything. I don’t think there’s a specific way to integrate a balanced state within, there’s no manual. This depends strictly on the individual and their ability to recognize and embody balance, but there are some guidelines.
It is really important to bring your focus on yourself fully, to connect within and flow from there at all times. We can never find true balance outside of ourselves, whether it is in a person or a thing. Most people think there’s something missing, that that can balance and complete them, but in truth, the thing that’s missing is balance itself. No one and nothing can give you that other than yourself. The only way to create balance in your outer life is from the inner. When you are balanced internally, it will reflect in the outer as well, through your relationships, through your interactions with All that is, energy exchanges, through your experiences and just day-to-day life.
Regaining your natural state of harmonious balance requires a lot of dedication and persistence, because there are many levels, facets and aspects of self that need to be balanced.
Firstly, we need to acknowledge and become more conscious of the areas that need balancing, whatever those are ( emotional, mental etc. ) and then internalize it, reflect on it, maybe learn its purpose and how it served us, as all imbalances are in truth learning lessons we put on our path specifically for that purpose. They are not coincidental. At time we are thrown off balance and that is always an amazing opportunity for soul growth. Learn what there is to be learned, get back to your balanced state/your center and don’t be hard on yourself. At times, it’s necessary to be thrown off balance as that triggers a bigger expansion.
These imbalances are usually caused by the social programming – fear and its many branches, so the easiest way to naturally regain your balance is releasing it.
The easiest example of balance I can use is the balance of the masculine and feminine energy within us. When we release the blockages related to any of those aspects of ourselves and consciously intend to embody a more harmonious balance, we naturally manifest it through our beingness. It feels like the masculine and feminine merge and become one within us and that is pefect balance. It is this perfect balance that is changes Humanity tremendously. For example, my friend Stephanie, due to her upbringing of emotionally absent parenting learned to be very capable, good at making decisions, active, etc. This did not allow the more feminine part of her nature to express itself, she was able to balance this by consciously focusing on allowing, letting go, allowing others to act, decide at times, to receive, such as accepting help, love, affection, opening more to intuition, letting go of trying to please others and honouring feeling, to not always feel she had to ‘do,’ to imagine flow and connect to that. All types of receiving were a big part of this.
She balanced herself through that, you see ? It all depends on the situation, the individual’s ability to follow his inner guidance, his heart and will to expand and evolve. Some experiences may be similar, but in the end, it all comes down to the individual, so always trust yourself, doubting leads nowhere anyways. Know you have all you need within to return to your natural harmonious state of being, it’s in your DNA.
That is where we are headed collectively – perfect balance, which is true harmony. Enjoy your day!
Thank you for reading,
Love and Light,